The History of Memorial Day

With May 29th marking Memorial Day this year, it only made sense to take a look at the history of the celebration through New Jersey’s newspapers. The holiday, often known as Decoration Day prior to the First World War, emerged after the American Civil War, and it served as a day where honor was to be given to those who fought and died in the conflict. It was after World War I that the holiday shifted to being a general celebration of those who died in America’s conflicts. The exact first Memorial Day celebration is not known. The newspapers we have available, such as the May 24, 1919 Palisadian, point to John A. Logan, leader of the veterans group known as the “Grand Army of the Republic,” who, in 1868, called for May 30 to be “designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion.”

MEMORIAL DAY
ITS ORIGINS

A photo of a Memorial Day celebration

Indeed, it is generally agreed that this was the first call for the holiday to be celebrated at the national level and the foundation of the modern holiday, but there were also earlier local ceremonies. In fact, as a May 28, 1915 Five Mile Beach Weekly Journal article notes, similar celebrations for a nation’s dead have existed throughout history in multiple countries. Regardless, the holiday found itself being adopted by the states and eventually it became a national holiday at the federal level, where it has been celebrated on the last Monday of May, rather than May 30, since 1971.

AT THE GRAVES OF THEIR FALLEN BROTHERS.

Photo of veterans at cemetary

A common form of celebration in these newspaper was to print poems written for the holiday. Featured below are a handful of these compositions.

The Singer and the Song
A Decoration Day Poem

He wrote the song the soldiers sung,
Poor, crippled and unknown.
They triumphed—how the heavens rung
Then they came proudly back and hung
Their trophies in the hall of state
And wore the favors of the great--
He died unwept, alone.

Twas come again, the sweet-toned day, 
Again they stripped the trees of May
And came close-buttoned to the chin,
Brave youth and vet’ran worn and thin,
To hall, and post, and park, and grove.
While mother, wife and sister wove
Rose, lilac-bloom and violet,
The lily-bell and mignonette. 
In garland fair, and sweet bouquet,
To deck the graves of blue and gray,

Again the fife-call, loud and shrill;
Again the drum-beat, roll and trill;
Again the steady, rythmic tramp
That once betokened field and camp;
Again the quick, commanding note;
Again the song the cripple wrote.

Mark where he sleeps; no shaft to grace
The sunken, bare, neglected place,
But one who knew
In passing threw
His boutonniere upon the grave,
And told his comrade. Down the line
It ran as runs along the shore
A broken wave.

"My flowers for him!" “And mine!" “And mine!"
They cried. “Our country owes him more
Than all. His song inspired the deed."
And so till eve the blossoms fell, 
A fragrant shower. At last, ’tis well--
And yet for him, poor, bruised reed,
One act of kindness when he lay
ln yonder bare, deserted room
Had changed his Winter into May--
Had made his world to bloom.

Who knows ? Mayhap the soul of him
Who slept beneath that fragrant pile
Swept downward from some planet's rim,
Swept past the curved, barbaric moon,
Soft thrumming on its harp the while; 
Till hov'ring o'er that hallowed spot
It sang this new, glad song of cheer,
A song to North and Southland dear, 
A song that mothers love to croon—
As thus: God knows not place nor lot,
His children all, or far or near, 
The Saxon and the Cavalier,
Rose and forget-me-not.

Chas. Eugene Banks
Featured in the May 25, 1895 The City Record
THE LOYAL AND TRUE.

The graves of our heroes
We cherish with pride.
Unselfish and loyal,
For others they died!
So bravely they met
The assaults of our foes;
Our country outlives
All their traitorous blows.

Their battles are over;
Their victories gained.
By gallant devotion
Our rights they maintained.
Their lives they gave up
Our loved country to save—
Their sleep is the sleep
Of the true and the brave!

Rememb’ring their crosses,
Their trials and pains;
We grieve for their losses.
While sharing their gains,
Rebellion they met,
And with vigor assailed;
Their losses were great,
Ere our armies prevailed.

All honor to heroes
Who stood for the right,
’Till rebels were vanquished
And scattered in flight.
Their record shall stand!
It inspires and cheers:
It must not be lost
In the flight of the years.

Such faithful devotion;
Recalling to-day;
We bring for a garland,
Choice flowers of May;
Our tribute of love
For the brave "Boys in Blue,”
When many were false.
They were loyal and true!

A halo of glory,
For each in his place:
In song and in story,
Their valor we trace.
Reverses they met
With a dominant will—
Their faith in success,
Was unfaltering still.

The flag of our country
Floats proudly to-day—
Our Union combining
The "Blue and the Gray.”
One country! One flag!
Undivided we stand;
Give praise to our God
For the help of His hand.

—John M. Morse, in Passaic Daily News.
Featured in the June 3, 1897 The Advance
A Memorial Day Poem
The Day of the Dead
By Ninette M. Lowater

When the days grow long and the grasses glisten
Impearled with tears the night has shed,
When birds all sing and the trees all listen,
There comes to us the Day of the Dead.
Dearer far than gems or than golden treasure
Is their dust, whose memory Honor keeps,
And the Nation leaves its toil and its pleasure
To garland each bed where a hero sleeps.

We have grown old; they are young forever,
With glory’s halo around each head.
Our names will die, but forgotten never
Are those on the roll of the Nation’s dead.
Past are the pain and the bitter aching.
Our sacred dead are their country’s now,
And the hearts that throbbed well nigh to breaking
Calmly above their ashes bow.

Peace to them—peace forever and ever!
Here shall no rude alarm intrude.
The jarring world shall disturb them never.
They know not of war or war’s interlude.
Bring to their graves no thought of sorrow.
Why should we mourn o’er our country’s dead?
Their fame shall grow bright through many a morrow
And shine like the stars when the day has fled.

Bring laurel and pine for their memory immortal,
And roses, red roses, to emblem the love
Which follows them, even through the dark portal.
And pansies, for thought of their welcome above.
Bring roses—white—for their purpose holy,
And mid the sweet flowers which are strewn at its side,
Whether his rank was high or was lowly,
Set the Banner of Stars, for which each one died.
Featured in the May 27, 1916 The Pleasantville Press
The Eve of Memorial Day
By S. F. Smith 

Sweet in the innocence of youth,
Borne of the brave and free,
They wove fair garlands while they
sang
“My country, ’tis of thee.”
How every bosom swelled with joy
And thrilled with grateful pride
As fond and whispering cadence
breathes,
“Land where my fathers died.”

Fair flowers in sweet bouquets they tied
Breaths from the vales and hills,
While childish voices poured the strain,
“I love thy rocks and rills.”
Each face grew radiant with the
thought,
“Land of the noble free;"
Each voice seemed reverent as it
trilled,
“Sweet land of liberty.”

And bud and bloom and leaf they
bound
And bade the living keep
Unharmed and pure the cherished
graves
Where brave men calmly sleep;
And thus, while infant lips begin
To lisp Sweet freedom’s song,”
Manhood’s deep tones from age to
age
Shall still “the sound prolong."

I hailed the promise of the scene;
Gladness was in the strain;
The glorious land is safe while love
Still swells the fond refrain;
And what shall be our sure defense?
Who guards our liberty?
Not man, not arms alone; we look,
“Our father’s God, to thee.
Featured in the May 26, 1917 The Pleasantville Press

We can also see the beginning of a Memorial Day tradition in these papers. In 1921, the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier was unveiled in Arlington National Cemetery. It has since become standard for the President or a proxy to lay a wreath at the site on Memorial Day. An early example of this ceremony can be seen in the pages of the June 13, 1924 Palisadian, featuring a photo of President Calvin Coolidge and two of his cabinet members visiting the site.

President Coolidge with his Secretaries of War and the Navy placing flowers at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.

It was also around this time that criticism began to emerge. As the holiday began to be celebrated in ways not directly tied to honoring America’s fallen (see the advertisements for Memorial Day programs below, which feature concerts, banquets, and parades), critics began to push back on those who did not celebrate the holiday in its intended manner. As one article in the May 24, 1919 Palisadian noted, “to a large share of our population the day is one for ball games and picnics.” The author of that article encouraged everyone to “give an hour or two of the day to the great lesson of patriotism and self-sacrifice.”

Memorial Day at Wildwood-by-the-Sea

Weekend program
Featured in the May 28, 1909 Five Mile Beach Weekly Journal

Unfortunately for those critics, the situation has not really changed. Memorial Day is celebrated today as a party to kickoff Summer, and most Memorial Day programs today do not make honoring the dead a priority. Still, there are some traditions, like the aforementioned ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, that put celebrating the sacrifice of United States service members front and center and that are still going strong, so the core idea of the holiday has not yet faded away.

Memorial Day

Photo of drummers
Featured in the May 26, 1911 The Lambertville Record

(Contributed by Tristan Smith)


Sources:

Fitzpatrick, Laura. “A Brief History of Memorial Day.” Time, May 24, 2009. https://content.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1900454,00.html.

“Memorial Day.” Britannica, April 5, 2023. https://www.britannica.com/topic/Memorial-Day.

U.S. Department of Defense. “Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.” Accessed April 24, 2023. https://www.defense.gov/Multimedia/Experience/Tomb-of-the-Unknown-Soldier/.

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